And again this morning...

He never showed last night. Just as I had thought but here he was again this morning.
I was up late last night getting stuff ready for a cubscout meeting tonight. So I banged on the snooze for a while this morning. Just as I was about to get rolling out of bed he bangs on my window. I grumbled and got up threw some shorts on and went to the door. I asked what he wanted and he said "coffee". I told him that he can't keep doing this and he said he has every right to come here cause his family is here. I had to tell him to keep his voice down and he plowed into the apartment.
He proceeded to make coffee and I'm just standing there thinking to myself "this has got to stop". I went and took a shower. When I got out I heard him asking our 9 year old if anyone has been at the house. He said"no" and Dad asked him "are you telling me the truth"? and he said "yes".
As I was making bottles and streightening up the kitchen he kept on arguing with me. At one point I got the dreadful finger in the face and threats that I usually get. I was putting the garbage out and he would not let me back into the house.
At one point I said to him that I was afraid that I was going to end up in the dumpster one day and the boys won't have a mother. I got yelled at for that one. On top of all this my 11 year old has finally told his dad that he doesn't like him and wants me to get a restraining order. I called the womens shelter today and the person I need to speak with is not in till tuesday. I don't want to get the police involved but it may just come down to that.
Just a bit ago he came up to my work and told me he was coming over for a few min. this afternoon. What? I don't get no say in this. I got more threats about my job and home. The problem I have is I don't have a phone at home so I can't call for help if I need to.